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Pitkos

Pitkos1.Die beste manier om  iemand “terug te kry” is om te vergewe
2. Voed jou geloof  en jou twyfel sal sterf van die honger.
3. Tensy jy die  hele skepping kan skep in 5 dae, is dit miskien nie so ‘n  goeie idee om vir God voor te skryf nie.
4. Suksesvolle  huwelike is nie om die regte persoon te vind nie maar om die regte persoon te  wees.
5. As die Gras  groener is aan die ander Kant van die draad, kan jy verseker wees die waterrekening is ook  hoër.
6. Woede is ’n  toestand waar die tong vinniger werk as die verstand.
7. Jy kan nie die verlede verander nie, maar jy kan die huidige ruïneer  deur te bekommer oor die toekoms.
8. God gee altyd Sy  beste aan hulle wat die keuse aan Hom oorlaat.
9. Alle mense  glimlag in dieselfde taal. . . . Read More ... >>>

Midlife Crisis – MLC

Midlife Crisis – MLCThe first question you should ask is: ‘What is a Midlife Crisis?’Dr Anthony

MLC is an emotional condition that can appear in both men and women, usually around 45, however latest studies reveal that the spread is more around 35 to 50. The anxiety felt usually focuses on the realisation that a person’s life is halfway over. One of the factors has to do with aging. The person may feel that by the time he/she reaches the supposed halfway point in life, he/she should have achieved more.

Marc Gerzon made the following statement about understanding the Adult Metamorphosis: ‘I had a war going on inside me between the voice that said: “You’re finished growing, you’re done, it’s a done deal; and another voice that said: You’ve only begun to explore what life is about!” ’

This sums it up beautifully, doesn’t it? . . . Read More ... >>>

Family Perspectives

Joshua 24:15 b says ‘As for me and my household, we WILL serve the Lord’. The question is how many South African homes truly are sold out to God to live holy lives. Parents are more concerned to produce happy families, rather than holy families. . . . Read More ... >>>

Intimacy: the secret to fulfilling sex in marriage

Intimacy secrets‘Not tonight Dear, I have a headache’. The seven words in a phrase any man does not want to hear. It is reality that you will inevitably have to face the excuses if you do not know how to fill your spouse’s emotional tank. It is often said: ‘the twenty three hours before, determines the one hour of sexual connection between a husband and his wife’.

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"Walk your talk" by rescuing families - Shooting Incident 30 June 2007 – Anthony van Tonder wounded in Hijacking Ordeal.

Rescuing Families is dangerousWhat happened?

My wife and I were setting up our training room at 596 Alouette Street Elardus Park at around 19.00. The Training room is situated behind the double garage belonging to the tenants residing in the home on the premises, when at approximately 19.10 Michelle heard a commotion through the inter-leading door, peeped through and saw that the family were being held at gunpoint. She swung around, back to the door, saying: ‘They are being robbed!’ I was a bit indecisive and said to Michelle: ‘Run to the office and lock yourself in’. She replied: ‘No, they are being hijacked, they need help. The mom and babies are trapped in the car, please help them!’ I looked around frantically what could be used, and about the same time Michelle said: ‘Hammer!’ I grabbed two of them and went charging through the door, shouting: ’Leave the woman and children alone!’

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RESOLVING CONFLICT

Resolve ConflictConflict is unavoidable. Conflict is worth resolving.

Some people go around conflict, over conflict, or even under conflict, but fail to find an amicable way to go THROUGH the conflict. This is firstly a decision of the will. It secondly is a skill, which can be acquired.

Someone once said: ‘It is more rewarding to resolve conflict than to dissolve a relationship’.

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How to Manage Anger.

Angry CoupleTired of fighting? Want to run away because the arguments just seem to go around and around in circles, going NOWHERE? Are you at the end of your tether?

Then this life changing information is just for you. All you need to know is why you continue getting so angry and how to resolve your conflict. . . . Read More ... >>>

"I do" the implications of the marriage vow

"I do" - The marriage vow

What does it mean today when couples say the words ‘I do’?

Does that mean they are really saying ‘I do, as long as it works out?’ or merely ‘I’ll try’?

You can choose to get married – no-one holds a gun to your head. Yet, it is the truth that at the time of exchanging vows, people merely mouth off: ‘I do’. Society today has no clue as to the depth of uttering those two little words. . . . Read More ... >>>

Communication!

We talk all the time! But do we communicate in a way that builds relationships and promotes personal growth?

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